Thursday, October 30, 2008
Through new eyes
As I wrote in the previous blog, travel is something that I consider integral to who I am, as I was blessed to be bitten by the travel bug at an early age. Travel is something I feel has shaped who I am, has shaped my worldview and has impassioned me in countless ways in the past, present and, undoubtedly, will continue to do so in the future.
When I first arrived to Costa Rica, I imagined it would be fairly smooth sailing. I had lived before in Mexico and I had traveled to other parts of Latin America. I knew Latin culture and spoke Spanish decently enough to get around safely, to make friends and engage in meaningful conversation, to get the gist of historical happenings and current affairs. And yet I began to experience homesickness. For the first significant time in my life, I experienced homesickness…badly. It was humbling, in the least, as I had taken pride in being someone who could adapt to another culture and who, additionally, could feel impassioned by it. It was that excitement and newness and energy that had so deeply drawn me into life abroad in previous occasions. So what was going on with me this time around?!?
I realized that there were a few major differences that made this time around unique in comparison to my prior experiences. I was entering into life abroad for a longer period of time than I had experienced previously. I was faced with graduate school in Spanish, something for which I was not prepared. I easily became frustrated with the aspects of Latin culture that didn’t coincide with my U.S. culture. But wasn’t I already aware of those differences, if not accustomed? I was constantly comparing and contrasting my home culture with my host culture, something which is necessary in processing your lived reality (and the emotions that accompany that reality) but if taken to the extreme it can be damaging to one’s attempt to authentically live in their host country. I realized that at times I made blanket assumptions about and even statements to Costa Ricans about those comparisons my brain was now so intentionally noting.
I was experiencing culture shock. I was experiencing culture shock when I thought I had already been there and done that in my previous experiences in living and traveling abroad. I mistakenly thought I was beyond culture shock.
Life as a graduate student quickly required incorporating some sort of rhythm and routine if I were to function well in my new “home away from home”. I remember a phone conversation with my brother that took place in my second or third month of living in Costa Rica. I was overwhelmed and flustered with my reality and feeling depressed about my seeming lack of ability to cope with and enjoy and succeed in that reality. Besides telling me to “quit sleeping in so much!”, he asked me, “are you working out?”. “No.” “Start working out regularly. Find yourself a routine for your daily life.” And so I did. And it helped immensely.
Not only did I find myself in a routine but I also found myself in a state of near constant stress with my studies. Occasionally I was able to get away on weekends or short breaks between trimesters to travel to a beach town (a sure fix for this Calgal!) or to one of Costa Rica’s lush rain forests. I spent 5 weeks at home during Christmas and New Year’s, which was one year after my original arrival in Costa Rica, and it was the emotional, mental, spiritual and physical renewal I was so seeking and needing at that point in time in order to come back for year numero dos in Costa Rica.
And what a difference year numero dos has been. I have felt so much more confident in my academic life and in my Spanish. It was as if things started to really “click”. I have felt less frustrated and more joyful. I have critiqued less and lived more. And yet I have still lived a routine that has looked very much like the first year—a routine that has consisted of much time spent sitting in front of my laptop, typing away on papers or my master’s thesis, all of which induced stress and anxiety. Is that really how I envisioned my life abroad?? Didn’t feel all that exotic to me!
It is true that my life abroad in Costa Rica has certainly been very different than my time as a student in Puebla, Mexico, where I traveled every single weekend of my semester and experienced far less academic responsibility and stress. I acknowledge that life as a full-time graduate student, no matter where you are, is not one of excessive free-time. But I am in beautiful Costa Rica—the “pura vida”! Even in the “pure life”, however, it is often just “getting through each day” that fills up one’s time and requires much energy. Numerous conversations with fellow gringos living here in Costa Rica has confirmed this. When asked by our family and friends back home, “but seriously, what is it that you do in Costa Rica every day??”, there’s no better reply than: “I just get through the day. I survive.”
And so, with my classes finished and my thesis defense complete, I entered into this time of travel with my California cousins with much gratefulness and relief. I knew I would enjoy the company immensely, and that I would also enjoy the travel, be it to the familiar or otherwise. And I saw the beauty of this country through their eyes—a beauty that was fresh and exciting. A beauty that captivated and enticed; a beauty that provoked new insight and conversation and even dreams of living life abroad.
I feel as though I have just been romanced anew by this country I have lived in for nearly two years now. Costa Rica is a country that truly does have much beauty—natural beauty as well as a beauty found within its people. It offers waves for my surfer cousin to brag about in the waters back home; it offers lush rain forests and cloud forests which are home to millions of species; it’s full of monkeys and birds, snakes and insects; it’s national beer is worth drinking and it’s gallo pinto of rice and beans and Salsa Lizano for breakfast is worth incorporating into one’s diet back home. The people are friendly and laid-back and sincerely hope you enjoy their country, which they are so very proud of.
As the remaining weeks before my departure are now few enough that a countdown could begin, I am grateful that I have reentered (a revisiting of sorts) that first stage of culture shock: excitement. It is described as the “honeymoon” stage of culture shock. Culture shock is something one experiences and processes through not just once within a certain culture, but many times, each time presenting itself a little differently and, thus, continually allowing for more growth and insight, more challenges and memories, additional opportunities to “learn and listen, to be the happiest and best travel ambassador on Earth”.
Monday, September 22, 2008
When you travel...
As I near the close of this chapter of "travel" in Costa Rica, I have been reflecting on the reality that although I will have lived abroad (in Puebla and later Monterrey, Mexico and now in Costa Rica) for a total of nearly three years, I am still on a quest to learn what it means to travel well. I don't have all the quirks figured out on how to gracefully survive life abroad. True, I could probably give a decent crash course entitled Living Life Abroad 101, but I am by no means an expert nor do I ever hope to be really. That might minimize some of those necessary stress-induced adrenaline rushes and painfully embarassing cultural faux pas that make for great story telling and great reflection and growth. Traveling, be it short-term or more extended journeys, is a part of my life that I have been so blessed by and have enjoyed tremendously. I have the desire and the will to commit to traveling my whole life long, si Dios quiere (God-willing).
I was recently rereading the inspirational words of Sami Sunchild (a name that also inspires, no?) and there are so many beautiful ideas to be lived out and incorporated in one's experiences while traveling... be that within one's home country or while experiencing life abroad.
I am so grateful for the opportunity I have been given to "learn and to listen" --thanks to the support of the Rotary Ambassadorial Scholarship as well as the support of my loved ones.
When You Travel
When you travel
Take peacemaking
And friendship and learning
And listening as your sacred,
God given duty.
Refuse to carry with you
An empty head or an empty
Heart. Give thanks for every
Human encounter, every animal,
Bird, plant, that shares this
Gorgeous planet. Thank them,
Talk to them, nourish them.
Let no greed or selfish thoughts distract you. Let no
Anger, anxiety or bitterness
Accompany you. Travel
Unencumbered by too much stuff
Or by too many pre-
Conceived ideas. Enter every
New encounter with gratitude
For another opportunity
To learn and to listen,
To be the happiest and
Best travel ambassador on
Earth. Affirm your natural ability to balance out the
Injustices of the world.
Know that hate crimes will cease
When we listen to each other,
When selfishness and envy are
Replaced with
Compassion and when
Enemies become friends.
Hold in your mind a vision
Of a peaceful world
Where travelers are the
Sowers of the seeds of joy.
Sami Sunchild
Loving the "cow parade" that came to San Jose! Local artists were given the opportunity to design and make colorful a cow sculpture. There was so much variety, but the most commonly used themes were nature and coffee, which, of course, makes sense since Costa Rica is known for it's stunning natural beauty and eco-tourism as well as for it's production of quality cafe--some of the best in the world!
Thursday, July 3, 2008
El Traspaso
Above: from the past senora presidenta to the current: the changing of the gold rose pin.Below: post-ceremony and dinner, pictured with Emilia and Miguel.
Below: The members of the Rotaract club La Guaria were all in attendance
Wednesday, February 20, 2008
Year Numero Dos!
My dear roommate and amiga, Meghan, welcomed me back "home" to Costa Rica!Here are a few highlights since the last time I wrote (back around Thanksgiving time):
--I have now completed more than half of my master's program... yesss!! Three trimesters completed and just two more to go!..oh, and then there's that thesis to finish, too!!
--My dear college friend, Ambercita, came for a visit and we enjoyed ferry rides, beaches, waterfalls and spending time with my friends and classmates in Costa Rica before embarking on our first border-crossing by bus. In Nicaragua, we reunited with college friends, Dan and Amy, and festively celebrated Amy's marriage to Gonzalo, and also the immaculate conception of the Virgin Mary on December 7th. It also sounded pretty neat to "board" (slide/sled) down a volcano, so we did that too!

At the bottom of the volcano we "boarded" down...fast!!! We wore these super suits and chemistry class-like goggles to protect us as we came down at an avg. of 45km/hr.--I arrived home to a frigid Midwest and wasted no time in throwing on the long john's and winter coat to go cut down a snow-covered Christmas tree.
--Christmas celebrations were wonderfully comforting, restful, food-filled and winter wonderland-esque. 
--Time with Dad and Mom, as well as many loved friends and extended family made for a very heartwarming 5 weeks at home.
--My first caucus experience was one to never be forgotten! Made me proud to be an Iowan and have the privilege of participating in the nation's first caucus... go Obama!--Upon arrival to Costa Rica, bus tickets were purchased to head south to Panama, where my Sugar Creek Camp bud, Keefe, and I enjoyed hiking through a beautiful cloud forest, the sites of Panama City including the impressive Panama Canal, and then 4 days snorkeling and soaking up the rays in a slice of paradise called the San Blas Islands.

Hiking in the Volcan Baru cloudforest, which encompasses Panama's one and only volano.

Here's what our little slice of paradise looked like... during the days we would be taken by a small motorboat to an island such as this one and spend the day there. This island had a sunken ship nearby, which naturally provided some amazing snorkeling.
The Kuna Yala indigenous people live on the San Blas Islands. The women make molas, a wonderful art form that is similar to quilting, which they then incorporate into the blouses they wear. A mola such as the one pictured here can take up to 15 days to complete.
That brings us, mas o menos, up to date, where I am now in the fourth week of classes and glad to be back in a normal routine again. It's been a great start to a second year, especially as I've reflected much on all of what last year held and also imagined all the possibilities for this year.
I will be in Costa Rica until December, completing my Human Rights and Peace Education degree and (cross our fingers) graduating in late November. My volunteer involvement with Rotary is continuing, although my scholarship year has ended. I feel incredibly blessed to be embarking on year numero dos in Costa Rica, and I am thankful for the momentous support and affirmation from all of you! Gracias!
As good as it is to be back in Costa Rica again, it just so happens that one week from today I will be boarding a plane and flying to Miami where the Nelson familia will meet up for the start of a 14-day trans-Atlantic cruise which will make stops in Portugal and end in Barcelona. We'll do the tourist thing around Barcelona for 5 days before then heading back to the U.S. and to Central America. We can't wait for the time together as a family, and are excited to finally live out our dream of another "family cruise". So, as far as travel dates, I will be mostly out of contact from February 27-March 18.
A cruise ship passing through the lock at the Panama Canal. Each ship passing through the canal pays according to it's weight--the average ship pays $30,000.
As far as contact info for the year...
I have a NEW CELL PHONE NUMBER: country code 506. 8381-4103
My mailing address is the same:
Megan Nelson
Programa de Intercambio--UNA
c/o Paula Vargas
Apartado 2598-3000
Heredia, Costa Rica
America Central
Pura vida,
Megan
Tuesday, November 27, 2007
gobble gobble gobble gringo-style!
This year´s Thanksgiving holiday proved that there´s something special about uniting with one´s co-patriates when far from home... the celebration continues and, arguably, it is at an even greater level of celebration since all are giving 110% to keep traditions alive and well! So, suffice it to say, I ate WELL this Thanksgiving!!

Iowa Megan , Washington Jennifer, Minnesota Lance, South Dakota Meghan, Michigan Randy and Toronto (!)Grant (lucky guy got to celebrate Thanksgiving twice, since Canada celebrates earlier in November. We were also enlightened this year to learn that in Puerto Rico they also celebrate Thanksgiving).
Hosting the gringo-style Turkey dinner in our apartment meant you know what....the turkey was up to us! Meghan dutifully watched an MSN.com instructional video on how to prepare the bird, and I offered moral support and my photography skills! .... 6 hours of brine-ing that turkey turned out to be the special touch! That and then another 6 hours of cooking that turkey, due to the high altitude.

I should back up to say that we weren´t sure if we were going to eating any turkey at all this year, due to the significantly higher prices in Costa Rica. Thankfully we were able to find a cheaper price than the original $50 for a frozen bird at the nearby supermarket. We quicky discovered you have to get a bit creative when attempting to bring all the food traditions to fruition.... those same ingredients that you´ve seen purchased and used year after year at home might not be stocked on the shelves in the markets, and even if they are, chances are the dish will still end up tasting different!
With everyone contributing their favorite Thanksgiving dishes, our potluck-style meal was SO tasty, complete with Jennifer´s amazing green bean casserole and candied sweet potatoes! Yummmmmm!
Here´s the whole spread--yeah, we´re good!.....turkey, garlic mashed potatoes and gravy, Stovetop stuffing, cranberry jelly, curried fruit and cornbread (made by yours truly!), olives, pickles and jalapeños. And, of course, pumpkin pie for dessert!
The night was made complete with reflections on the many things to be thankful for this year--some of us having spent all of 2007 in Costa Rica, others having just arrived--and then after pumpkin pie and coffee we got down on the floor to play SPOONS! Thanksgiving 2007 in Costa Rica was a good one!!
rain rain IS go(ing) away....!!!
Here are a few photos, taken from our apartment, of a typical afternoon downpour as well as the common flooding of the roads...

Wednesday, November 14, 2007
cAhUiTa by photos
As my trusty LP guide describes, "upon arriving at Costa Rica´s Caribbean Coast, visitors come to a delicious realization--they´ve somehow got into two countries for the price of one." It truly is a different world, folks. Compared to the majority of Costa Rica, the Caribbean Coast (well the little I know of it, to be more accurate) is noteably unique and, for that reason alone, truly intriguing. The climate is one that provokes constant perspiration, the food is popping with zip: spice and coconut milk are the favs, the spanish almost sounds like an entirely different language, the people are black in skin color, the music is reggae, dreadlocks are the norm, and the pace of life is muy pura vida... slow, relaxed, chill.
After many months of waiting, I finally boarded a bus and headed to the Caribbean Coast, to the little town of Cahuita, which boasts a beautiful national park, refuge for this coast´s last living coral reefs, unusual black sand, and gauranteed relaxation.
Cabinas Seaside.... just as the name claims, this great find is right on water front and is a crowd pleaser with hammocks strung beneath the coconut palms.
Total relax---loved it!



After our snorkel fest, we were dropped off at Puntita Cahuita, the point of the area´s National Park. We hiked through lush coastal rain forest, stopping often to watch the many monkeys swinging from branch to branch, playing, munching, checking us out. Wonderfully, there were more monkeys than there were people!
To compliment the start of the photo montage, here´s a final picture showing the rastafari influence on the Caribbean Coast. Yup, that´s Jesus with dreads; rastafari Jesus.
Nearing the end
As the holiday season is now upon us, I am especially thankful for so many things---for my family and friends back home (and around the globe!), for my health and safety, for an incredibly blessed year as a Rotary Ambassadorial Scholar, and for upcoming travels here in Costa Rica and then to Nicaragua with my dear college friend, Amber, and THEN a much awaited return home to Iowa! Before then, there are papers to finish writing and a "gringo" potluck Thanksgiving Dinner to feast upon! Now if we can just find ourselves a turkey....!
Please do be in touch---- by email, phone calls, personal visits!!
The following is just for fun---a ´Top 15´ list put together by a former Rotary Ambassadorial Scholar about some likely clues to identify those who have had "the amazing experiences, tried the weirdest foods and danced to the songs we all have come to love while living in another country through Rotary International." Anyone who has lived abroad can surely relate! ::
SI al TLC
Several weeks after the vote...
Saturday, October 6, 2007
My heart says...Si or No?
Tomorrow, on Sunday October 7th, Costa Rica faces a historic moment. Costa Rica is the only country yet to ratify the controversial free-trade agreement with the United States, called CAFTA. Before my arrival to Costa Rica, I knew I would be entering into a unique political environment during my year abroad, not only because of the controversy in signing the agreement but also precisely because I come from the country which has proposed this agreement and has implemented other such agreements, such as the well-known NAFTA between Canada, the U.S. and Mexico.

Erica and I, in February, in front of the banner for the ELCA Lutheran Church of Costa Rica
The Dominican Republic-Central American Free Trade Agreement (DR-CAFTA) has been controversial since negotiations began behind closed doors in January of 2003. By August 2005 all participating countries had signed on and were pending ratification of the agreement by their congresses. Despite widespread popular dissent, the agreement was ratified by every country, except Cost Rica; passing in the U.S. House of Representatives on July 27, 2005 by one vote, with two representatives not voting. The movement to fight unfair free trade agreements continues to grow in the United States and around the world. Nowhere, however, is the struggle against free trade agreements more evident than in Costa Rica.
While the rest of the countries have begun to study the effects of DR-CAFTA on their economies, often seeing their imports increase and their exports decrease, Costa Rica has yet to make a decision on the agreement. Many experts predicted that the decision would come immediately following the 2006 Presidential election. Yet, despite the election of pro-CAFTA Presidential candidate Oscar Arias (known for his reception of the 1987 Nobel Peace Prize for efforts to end civil wars ravaging many Central American countries), the race was so close between Arias and anti-CAFTA opponent Otton Solis, taking weeks to hand-count the ballots, that it was obvious that the country was deeply divided over the issue. Costa Ricans have continued to be so evenly split over CAFTA that the Legislative Assembly (Costa Rica’s congress) eventually decided to let CAFTA be determined by popular vote in a national referendum to be held this coming Sunday, October 7.
The streets of San José, the capital city, have been filled the past months with thousands chanting "No al TLC! (No to CAFTA!)" This past Sunday, September 30, an estimated 150,000 to more than 200,000 Costa Ricans joined together to voice their opposition to CAFTA in a peaceful march down San Jose's main street. Costa Rican Lutheran Church Executive Director Pastor Gilberto Quesada Mora offers an explanation for the continued resilience of the David vs. Goliath movement, stating that the “Yes (to CAFTA)” movement is fighting only for an interest, while “No (to CAFTA)” movement is fighting with passion, with much at stake.
These photos are from the anti-CAFTA march, held in February, which was one of the final large-scale organized marches in San Jose.

University students from the National University, where I am a graduate student, representing the university's officially declared "NO al TLC" position, which it declared in 2003. Adding to the scene are allegations of corruption and manipulation by politicians, company owners, and even U.S. government officials for the “Yes” campaign, most notably with the leak of a memo sent by Second Vice-President Kevin Casas and legislator Fernando Sanchez to President Oscar Arias and Presidency Minister Rodrigo Arias. The memo details underhanded political tactics such as “stimulating fear” in four different areas and threatening that “the Mayor that doesn’t win his canton [for CAFTA] will not get a penny from the government in the next 3 years.”
As with other free trade agreements, the “Yes” side is mainly comprised of the political and economic elite, while the “No” side has supporters including government workers, university professors, religious leaders, students, union leaders, small business owners, and more. The concerns about labor, environment, and agriculture are vibrant in the debate. What makes the stakes unique in Costa Rica is that it stands to lose the many qualities that have made Costa Rica a kind of peaceful anomaly in Central America. Here are just a few of the "Costa Rica-specific" reasons to vote no to CAFTA:
“Estado solidario:” Costa Rica is able to provide high rates of coverage at low cost for many basic services through state-run enterprises, which operate under a commitment to provide basic services to every corner of the country. Following the Costa Rican mindset of solidarity, those who can pay more help to subsidize the cost for those who cannot afford it. Under CAFTA, these areas would be opened up for competition to private providers. While privatization may or may not offer improved quality, it will definitely replace the commitment of service to all with a commitment solely to profit margins.
---Telecommuncations: Costa Rican telephone rates are less than half the cost of the rates in other Central American countries, while simultaneously offering the highest area of coverage in the region. It is estimated that, under CAFTA, one out of four families will no longer be able to pay for telephone service.
---Healthcare: Costa Rica’s healthcare system is currently ranked 36 in the world by the World Health Organization, just ABOVE the United States, which is ranked 37. CAFTA facilitates healthcare for the rich and will destroy the ability to provide healthcare to all.
Arms manufacturing: Costa Rica, heavily dependent on tourism and therefore on its international image, is a country known for its pledge to peace and non-violence. CAFTA puts this tradition into jeopardy by allowing for the buying, selling and even manufacturing of arms on Costa Rican soil.
The strong opposition to CAFTA in Costa Rica is even drawing attention in the U.S. Congress. On October 1, US Senator Sherrod Brown from Ohio gave an excellent Senate floor speech detailing the shortcomings of NAFTA/CAFTA style agreements and hi-lighting CAFTA resistance efforts in Costa Rica. **Watch it on YouTube in the blog entry below**
Senator Brown also commented on CAFTA at an interfaith prayer breakfast in 2005, stating “I am offended by what DR-CAFTA will do to the poor. I’m a Lutheran, and this trade agreement goes against my faith values and those of my church. Trade agreements are written for and by the economic elites of both our country and the other countries of the world. They serve their interests, not those of common, every day people and certainly not those of the poor.”
Follow the outcome of the Costa Rican referendum (immediately binding as long as 40% of the population participates in the vote) on Costa Rica’s English language newspaper at http://www.ticotimes.net/ or, for Spanish speakers, at http://www.nacion.com/.
I will be sure to share the outcome with you, as well, with a blog entry.
Adding a bit of excitement to the mix for Meghan and I, it just so happens that we live directly above an office space used by one of headquarters for the "Yes" campaign. Displayed in the office windows are banners reading "Mi corazon (heart symbol) dice SI." Beginning several weeks ago, it is now a frequent happening to hear the repetitive sound of honking horns as cars drive by our building--most often the honking comes from those cars with "NO al TLC" flags waving from their car windows; however, as I type this blog entry a caravan of cars, adorned with "SI al TLC" bumper stickers, banners and flags waving from their windows, has congregated on the street below, in front of the office, getting ready to drive around town honking honking honking on this historic eve of the SI or NO vote. 
Several weeks ago, in the early morning of Independence Day (Sept. 15), I was awakened to the terribly loud sound of breaking glass and male voices. The next morning I discovered that the windows of the "SI" headquarters, located directly beneath our apartment, had been broken and the walls of our building had been spraypainted "NO TLC." It is unfortunate that the "No" side has become characterized as the more destructive and violent side, as they are responsible for exactly that: destruction and violence in the name of voicing their opinion. Of course this only discredits their opinion. 
Wednesday, September 19, 2007
Club Presentations
As part of my role as an ambassador of goodwill, as a Rotary Ambassadorial Scholar, I give presentations to Rotary and non-Rotary audiences. Through these presentations, the idea is to personally help further international understanding by sharing of myself and of my experiences. Talking about my home country and culture allows for further cultural exchange, as when I later return home after my scholarship year, I am also required to visit with Rotary clubs and non-Rotary audiences alike to share about my experiences here in Costa Rica.
Meghan and I thought we better partner-up to share about our home country and our neighboring states--Minnesota and Iowa. Our presentation, entitled Service Above Self in Costa Rica: "Las Megans", shares about the Rotary Ambassadorial Scholarship and why we chose to apply, what we are each studying, if we like Costa Rica (and the answer, of course, is "Si!"), about our families, our home states and where we worked prior to coming to Costa Rica.
The video above captures one such presentation---which was given to the joint meeting of the Rotary and Rotaract clubs of Heredia, the city where we live and study. We have loved getting to know both of these clubs and they have warmly received us. We were honored to be able to share our presentation with them at this special end of the Rotary year meeting, where both club presidents were honored for their exceptional service to their clubs and to the betterment of Rotary and Rotaract in Costa Rica.
After each presentation, it is customary to exchange club flags, Meghan and I each presenting the club flags from our home clubs in the U.S. Hope you enjoyed the video!
Sunday, September 16, 2007
Beauty and Butterflies
An afternoon spent enjoying the beauty of nature, in the company of beautiful women friends. A restful refuge we found in INBio Parque, a nature preserve tucked away among the hustle and bustle of Heredia city life, which seeks to conserve Costa Rica's biodiversity. Here we discovered beauty and butterflies and many other lovely creatures.
A beautifully bright-colored caterpillar--every leaf on the tree was covered with these fuzzy little creatures.
New born baby butterflies--we watched in wonder as they left their cocoon homes behind and discovered the movement of their bodies, stretching and using their tiny little legs during their first seconds of life. Truly captivating and wondrous.



